…don’t turn subtle seduction into a sleazy behavior. Today, reality shows take actions that are vulgar and self-destructive and present them as a positive way of life because we see them on television or splashed in the pages of magazines. The media gives sleazy behavior attention because it is abhorrent and unnatural. Flashing your breast in public, drinking more than what you can handle, pouring any liquid (water, liquor, juice) on yourself, or allowing someone else to pour it on you is sleazy. Men may be turned on for a moment, but such attention is short-lived. Ignore the reality show reenactments and be the lady men want to get to know rather than the woman they will try to avoid the morning after.